what do you want?

mattress houses, backyard snack bars, and vision quests

Do you know what you want? I mean more than just you want a sandwich, or a massage, or a high five for checking off all the items on your to-do list. And I don’t mean to ask about goals like, for example, making more money, or achieving higher, more celebrated levels of comparative success.  I’m not talking about what you think will make you happy, I me…